Man Repelling, even when it's just thinking for yourself (For women)

These days our culture is set up to make us feel as little as possible. Sending us messages each day telling us how to really live, how to fall in love, getting told right from wrong, when to get a job, and telling everyone they need to look a certain way to fit in. With rules like these it’s almost certain many of us if not all, find ourselves lost with who we really are and what we really want out of life. If you do your own thing without all these obnoxious rules in your way, I believe you still can be happy. Especially for women, it’s called Man Repelling something Leandra Medine has taught us and Man Repelling can mean more than just the way you repel men, it can be your way of living life out of the ordinary. So here are lists of Man Repelling ways you can do to when it comes to thinking for yourself.

Don’t let people change your happiness. It’s nice to think that we all can get along if we really tried, but that simply isn’t the case. We all have different opinions, beliefs, and ideas and trying to enjoy someone’s company over those will be difficult for many. Having different views with your own ideas then what others think can be challenging and sharing them with others may not always be the safest bet, but you shouldn’t let others get in your way of your happiness. People are just not going to change.

While everyone’s out drinking and partying, you’re inside breaking all the rules and creating dreams. I feel this can be said for many girls, you can be the anti-social, the house bug, the socially awkward, or even the party hard girl and feel the need to take time out of your social life and follow your dreams. While your friends are out on a Friday night you are home doing the math and finding more creative ways to better your future.

Quit your day job to start your dream job. We all have been here, even myself. Working the job that gets you where you need to be, not where you actually want to be gets tiring and old. Sometimes you need to just wake up and breakup with your boss to do what you really love. In the end, it’ll make you more happy and enjoy yourself more.

            We are all lost with communication these days. The dating rules our girlfriends give us saying wait double the time he texted you, to text him back. Or talk to more guys then one just so your heart doesn’t break and you have a back-up. Do what you want while the same time guarding yourself and protecting your heart. Pick up the phone without being a stranger and call. Tell him how you feel without being afraid of failing and playing games. The whole game thing can be cute during your early twenties, but as you get older the game starts loosing it’s power. I understand you want to be safe and listen to your friends or those romantic movies, but at the same time filter out your friends and those romantic movies and listen to yourself and what you actually want.

Last one I find major is to focus on your present because that is your future. We tend to let life’s moments slip away without even thinking about what they actually mean. Everything we go through with everyday actions of life, the things that distract us from who we really are, and what we want change us. Find balance and step out of your comfort zone and when you do this you’ll end up being happy. Don’t try to fit in to be well liked, Man Repel yourself to think outside of the box and think yourself.

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